Hello everyone!
Welcome to the last newsletter of the year.
2020 made previous anni horribiles seem like they were a grand old time, and I am genuinely happy to see the back of it. Here’s hoping 2021 treats us much better, because, omo, I no fit do this kain thing again.
A bit of personal news: today, 32 years ago, my parents got married. 32 years is a long time, and I am mostly happy that they are still alive and married, considering all that has happened since then. So here’s to you, daddy and mummy – Happy Anniversary. I love you both.
Let’s begin.
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https://www.newyorker.com/culture/personal-history/notes-on-grief
Chimamanda, one of my favorite authors, lost her father in mid-2020. This is powerful, emotional writing on the anatomy of grief, and a daughter’s love for her father. It is very difficult to document grief, particularly when juxtaposed against love, but Chimamanda does it here. I hope it helps everyone who is mourning or grieving.
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We promptly go from death to celebrating life, in particular, this miracle that kept this man alive. Quick-thinking and calmness saved this man when he was sucked out from the window of the jet he was piloting. Life regularly resembles celluloid, and thankfully, like all good movies, this story had a happy ending.
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https://nntaleb.medium.com/commencement-address-american-university-in-beirut-2016-a5c6d57984b
Nassim Nicholas Taleb is that rare type of speech-giver/motivational speaker: what he says is worth listening to. It helps that most of what he advises people to do is rooted in his own life experiences, and is not just theoretical fluff.
Here, he addresses some new graduates as they prepare for life outside university, and his speech is chock-full of helpful advice that is helpful to everyone, not just new graduates.
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www.techcabal.com/2020/12/02/my-life-in-tech-feyikemi-fk-abudu-profile/
In October 2020, Nigeria experienced its biggest protests in 20-odd years. Thousands of youths, fed up with decades of police brutality, took to the streets, demanding justice and reforms. These protests offered a vision of what Nigeria could be: they were organized, peaceful, and had many different people pulling in the same direction. This is a profile of one of the voices which amplified the protests the loudest, and who, more than most, played her part.
Cometh the hour, cometh the woman. Bravo, FK!
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www.bloomberg.com/graphics/2020-opinion-india-and-modi-are-losing-china-battle/
Staying on the theme of states going to hell in a handbasket, this essay critically analyzes the Indian economy, and explains why so many (young) Indians no longer feel like they can achieve their dreams or fulfill their potential in their own country. I felt a sense of deja vu reading it: it could have been written about Nigeria. Swap out Modi for Buhari, and India for Nigeria, and it would be describing Nigeria or just about any other African country. Incompetent leadership exacerbated by a sycophantic personality cult is the one thing that we all have in common, it appears.
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www.winstonchurchill.org/publications/finest-hour/finest-hour-136/my-new-york-misadventure/
Winston Churchill was an interesting man. He is easily one of the important figures in British history, and few people anywhere can claim to have lived as full a life as he lived. Fewer still can be considered simultaneously hero and villain, like he was. He was doubly remarkable in that so many of the achievements for which he is feted happened in the twilight of his life. It would have been all so different if he didn’t survive this misadventure in New York.
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https://www.artish.world/specials/notes-on-coming-of-age-as-a-nigerian-in-a-globalising-world
Jola Ayeye, in this captivating essay, writes about coming of age as a Nigerian in a quickly-changing world. This is a must-read: no excerpt, no summary, can adequately capture either the spirit of or the message in this essay. Go ahead. Read it.
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humanparts.medium.com/ten-great-words-about-words-63c6e8622cca
This is the kind of niche, obscure knowledge that titillates me. The English language is fascinating and constantly evolving, and I find its vocabulary exciting. To that end, I enjoyed reading this article about words used to describe words.
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www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/sep/04/oliver-burkemans-last-column-the-eight-secrets-to-a-fairly-fulfilled-life
As we go into a new year, believe me when I say that this is all the guidance you need to plot and navigate your way through life. It’s a new start, and applying these gems will help you see both the forest and the trees.
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www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=cqidD7kVnxY
As an engineer, this piqued my curiosity. How does a regular Joe working with readily accessible equipment (to wit, no Top-Secret, military stuff) get a baseball to break the sound barrier? Breaking the sound barrier is a big deal: airplanes which broke them were either military jets or involved years of and billions of dollars in research.
Times like this, I see why I love engineering: no problem, no matter how complex, cannot be solved or worked around with sufficient brainpower. This project is a triumph of design and engineering over the limitations of nature.
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www.gq.com/story/the-promise-that-tested-my-parents-until-the-end
It’s only proper that this newsletter, written on my parents’ wedding anniversary, ends with a story of family and marriage.
“Couples pledge many things to one another. When my father grew ill, one promise tested everything about my parents’ long and happy life together, and forced my mother to wonder how she would keep her word—and also whether she should.”
Love. Duty. Family. Marriage. Fidelity.
This was quite the read. When I finished reading it, the only thing I could say was “bloody hell”. I’m willing to bet you will have the same reaction. Dig in.
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Thank you for reading to the end. I hope you enjoy the articles. I also hope 2021 goes swimmingly for you, and makes up for all the loss and suffering that was 2020.
Buenas suerte, todos.
Hasta la proxima.